The mother-in-law sent a document on the Internet to approve the “sticking”

Lihua aunt was once a "hearty" wife's mother. Because her son-in-law is too poor, she firmly opposes her daughter and son-in-law when she falls in love. I did not expect the young couple to be very competitive. After working in Wuxi for more than seven years, the two started from a poor and white house. Now that the house and the car are all there, a family of three enjoys a good time. The “big house” promised by the son-in-law to the daughter will be honored. Recently, the mother-in-law's experience of digging her daughter and her husband for five years and buying two rooms was posted on the Internet, attracting everyone's attention. “I especially want to share this story with my mother-in-law who had no room to talk about.” Our reporter Gu Yuefei

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Open up a batch of fights, find a family to help break up two young people several times

Ai Li’s daughter and son-in-law were students of Jilin University. When the two began to fall in love, they were opposed by the Lihua family. Lihua recalled that when her daughter had just started talking, she wrote a letter to her family and said that she had a boyfriend and her family was in rural Yixing, Jiangsu Province. Her family was in a normal family. Her father died in high school. Before that, he basically spent time treating his father. Light home savings. Lihua looked at the other party's poor home conditions and resolutely disagreed. "Now in this era, how can we not rely on our parents?"

"Our custom is not to buy a house for the mother-in-law, certainly not quit." Lihua aunt is a Shenyang person. She humorously said that she also hopes to rely on her daughter to turn over. When Li Hua sent the family's objections, it didn't take long before receiving a second letter from her daughter. The daughter asked her mother a question: Do you really like to live by your parents? Still like to live on your own? This problem caused Lihua to whisper. Colleagues looked at this letter and said that you must be "impaired" by the child. She actually has a choice.

In the second half of the second year of her daughter’s sophomore year, the son-in-law’s mother died suddenly, and the poor families worsened. Although Lihua is also very sympathetic, she is even more reluctant to marry her. She desperately advised her to break up with her boyfriend, but the good daughter said that breaking up with him at this time did not make him more injured, and decided to stand on the side of her boyfriend. Lihua’s helpless daughter is so “not sensible”: “You are inexperienced and the hardships behind are waiting for you.”

After the two graduated from school, the son-in-law returned to work in her hometown of Wuxi. Her daughter's first internship was in Shenzhen. Lihua looked overjoyed and thought it was a good opportunity to separate the two. However, I did not expect that my daughter quit her internship in Shenzhen and then went to Wuxi.

Distressed daughter may be guilty in the future, Lihua decided to use a "handkerchief", she excuse her family and something to return her daughter to the northeastern home, opened a family meeting. In order to be "smart", her husband also drank alcohol. The old couple spoke to me and gave my daughter an analysis of all kinds of terrible situations. But no matter what she says, the daughter is sitting and saying nothing but tears in her eyes.

The old couple brought in the two uncles their daughter liked and helped to persuade their stubborn daughters. I didn't expect that after the two met, the daughter who hadn’t spoken yet “exploded”. Soon the second grandfather “successed” and in turn persuaded the old. The couple should support the daughter's choice. Seeing her daughter don’t pull back, Lihua’s heart was soft and she had to return to Wuxi.

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Written on "The Poor Woman Buys a House and Remembers"

“Every time I get home from work early, I open the balcony and the kitchen light first. I just want him to see the light in his home on the way home. Someone at home is waiting for him.” Bowen can send from her daughter. It can be seen that the daughter is very satisfied with the emotion she has chosen. Aunt Lihua said that in the second half of this year, her daughter's big house will also be able to get a hand. From her daughter’s college graduation in 2004 to the present, although the young couples have worked hard, their “achievements” are very impressive: not only do they have small houses, but also the big houses are about to come. The car was bought long ago, and the two are very stable. The three enjoyed a good time.

And the son-in-law's family mother-in-law is also “very good” and “just like her own son,” said Aunt Lihua. The son-in-law is very attentive, and is usually extremely respectful to both parents. Not only that, he quickly conquers. Other relatives in the family are always full of joy as long as they are on the occasion of the New Year.

This reality also prompted Ah Lai to reflect on her “heart-wrenching” attitude towards her son-in-law. Recently, the old aunt of the enthusiasm in the cellophane relied on his 7-year struggle with his daughter and “poor sister-in-law” on Xihu hutong, aiming to see the parents and young people who talked about the marriage “no room to talk about”. Their ideals depend on their own ingenuity and hard work.

"If you have a family property at home, your child will not be able to live up to expectations. In a few years, you may lose yourself. Your family is impoverished. If you are willing to work hard, you will be able to build a home for a few years!" Lihua told the reporter.

Alibaba's post attracted many netizens. A netizen named “Jiuling Daquan Lake” commented: “When parents all want their children to be happy, in fact, happiness should be created like the daughter of Lihua Sister. If parents give their children a lot, they will spoil the child. The rich second generation is another mirror."

Many netizens commented that Li Hua's aunt was a “new wife’s mother” and said that her daughter-in-law’s experience was particularly touching, especially in today’s people’s minds. A netizen named "Heart of Aquilegia" immediately wrote a message to Aunt Lihua: "You speak so well, let's look at the young people now, especially those girls who have no room to talk about."

Take a look at the struggle history of this young couple, and then the heart of the mother-in-law will be frightened...

"Remember, when we first arrived in Wuxi, we had nothing but baggage and mutual promises." Lihua's daughter recalls that from 2004 to 2010 she finally had her own first house. This pair of young people has changed five residences in succession.

"He lived in a small room with no bed on the second floor. At that time, I would rather sit on the floor with him. The topic of the two people could never be said. Although the body was cold but my heart was hot, I knew that the total One day we will get better.” Lihua’s daughter was especially warm when she recalled the third residence. “I always remember the feeling of cold water washing my fingers when washing vegetables. But then we were all optimistic and we were very young. We will use Coke toast and we will play some small games..."

“Later, the boyfriend’s company moved to the new factory. He rented it near the factory. Every time I went to the bus, I had to ride for more than half an hour. At the station waiting for him to pick me up on a second-hand motorcycle he bought. We went to another village to buy food at an open air market, and we bought a bag of tomatoes for the late hawkers at the roadside in the evening to make us happy. To his hut, make a hot and delicious meal."

“The fifth residence is a house where his company’s deputy head home is idle for a long time. It is the 7th floor. We managed to clean the day and finally had a separate space. The days are so happy. Every day we ride a bicycle to Qingyi Road. At the side of the bridge, where he was waiting for the shuttle bus, I rode my bike to work.When I was off work, I rode in the sports center and waited for the familiar bus to pass by. He jumped happily, faced the sunlight and took over my Car, I still ring his waist."

“The sixth place of residence is our home now. After many twists and turns, we bought a small nest, small in size. Here we get married and have children. I remember that when my colleagues invited him to drink, the husband drank a lot of wine. Pulling the hand of Yang Ah-chieh, who has been taking good care of us in their company, said: 'Aunt Yang, this is the house we bought, but I will not let my wife stay here and I will buy her a big house in the future. At the time, all three of us cried."

This day of hard work was recorded by her daughter and published in the qq space. Aunt Lihua watched with tears. She was touched by this sour but still full of sweet emotions. All the worries about the young man had vanished.

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Faced with "naked marriage" is not right or wrong marriage is not materially related

In the past, social goods were relatively poor, and when the mother-in-law chose a son-in-law, she was more inclined to behave like character, hard-working and hard working. With social development and material development, the mother-in-law had love and protection for her daughter and hoped her daughter’s life was materially protected. Will consider more economic conditions. In the face of high prices and high prices, it is difficult for young people today to provide superior material conditions in a short period of time. This creates a phenomenon in which “naked marriage” is quietly popular among young people after the 80s. This is the difference between the two generations’ understanding of marriage. Can't tell who is right or wrong. Ah Li's daughter and son-in-law used actual actions to tell us that marriage is not happy. It is not related to the original material foundation. The key is to look at people. As long as the two go hand in hand, love and love, and then the big difficulties can survive. This is what many mother-in-laws are happy to see. It is also the healthy pursuit of the whole society. editor

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